If there’s one thing constant in both our life’s, it’s that they are always changing.

But what are they changing to and do we REALLY like it?

You may agree with me, that as a human being, we can both be prone to resisting change. We often like to stay in our comfort zones and can be reluctant to take a risk, even when they’re needed and would improve our personal and professional lives.

In our business and our personal time, how often do we think, believe, and feel that we should undertake a change, but neglect the opportunity to do so?

Two Hours – Three Opportunities

Just this morning, in the two hours before I sat down to write this article for you, I’ve had the opportunities to continue to earn the same amount of money or make more, increase or decrease someone else’s abundance, and accept or decline an offer that could lead to me realizing a dream I’ve had for five years.

In truth, I probably had more opportunities than that, but these were the ones I noticed. I suspect if you paused and took note of what’s been happening to you today, your day has been no different to mine.

The reason why most people don’t change things is that they don’t fancy the ‘doing’ part. We analyze, study and mull it over to death. In fact we spend so much time preparing to change, that you’d actually think we prefer the preparation more than dream we have in our heads.

But that’s really not the case. We both know that.

How we Can Work Together

If we agreed that you’d take action on any one thing you choose, we’d both know you were on the move to creating the dream you have in your head.

Of course, the goal you have might still seem miles away. But with every action you take brings your goal closer.

When I began my business, CommunitySoul, just over two years ago, I did it because I wanted to see positive change. I felt that you, me and everyone else in the world has the potential to master any area of their life.

My belief in your capabilities hasn’t changed. I still believe in you. Is still believe you can achieve all the things your heart desires.

But sometimes we just don’t know where to start.

Say, for example, you’re having trouble with money, never getting ahead or are in debt, a good place to start your personal mastery is to read book about, getting in the flow of money.

If you’re in business and want to attract more clients. The action you could take is to go on a marketing workshop that helps you attract more clients or understand and create effective advertising.

Let’s Do Things Together Consistently

Once we’ve taken the first step, you have to take a second. Then it’s just a case of taking consistent daily steps that are in line with what you want to achieve.

No matter what you choose to change, whether it’s your image, you ability to use a computer or your weight you must take consistent steps. As you do, your belief in what you are doing grows.

If you feel impatient or frustrated by the fact your goal or dream just seems so far away, and you want to change the way that is, we both know you can change that.

But before you change it, there is one issue you might have to face: the ‘Am I worth it?’ issue.

You see, how many times do we see opportunities that could take us closer to our dream and then turn away saying, ‘I can’t afford that,’ or ‘That seems too much.’

I know people feel like this because I see it everyday. A person calls us and says, ‘You do coaching?’ Then they say, ‘How much do you charge?’

Immediately we hear these words we know the caller is really saying ‘Are my dreams worth the cost?’ or ‘If I pay you this much, will I have to be committed to myself?’

We’ve played with how much we charge for coaching, and we’ve done it deliberately. And I’ve come to the conclusion that the price doesn’t really matter.

What matters is, how worthy a person feels.

You see, I know – and I suspect you know this too – that neither you, nor I, can put a price on your dream.

And when we receive a call from someone saying, ‘I have a dream I’d like you to help me achieve,’ we know we can help them. How do we know?

We know we can help them because they are coming from the right place. That place is not a place of ‘lack’ or limitation. It is not a place of not being good enough, or not having the money. It comes from a place of ‘I WANT THIS. I AM WORTHY. I AM COMMITTED TO ME.’

We’re all moved by stories of people who have nothing but go onto greatness. We love the hero’s journey. Books and movies are made of this stuff.

The hero at some point always has to face his enemy. Sometimes that enemy is the face that stares back at him from the mirror. But every time, the hero says, ‘Can we do this?’

And every time the answer has to be yes.

But rather than escaping into a story, why not become the story? Why not become the hero?

My challenge to you is to become the hero of your own life. Learn to accept the opportunities before you and master the things that challenge you.

If this article has struck a cord, then ACT NOW!

With love and good wishes
Neil

Must we give something up in order to get what we want?

Are you reconciled to hitting the invisible ceiling at work? Are you settling for just anyones affection? Or putting your passions away to pursue a ‘normal life’? Do you allow authorities, statistics, desperation, and old voices from the past to cloud your vision of the future?

The universe wants to give us everything, yet! We limit ourselves.

While we can experience unlimited success, our success must be limited to just one or two areas in our life. The problem is we are resigned to these facts.

Our limited thinking is precisely why we ‘eventually’ have to give something up. We don’t permit ourselves to consider we can have it all. To raise the bar we should start with an uncompromising, unrelenting desire to give ourselves a 10 in every area of our lives.

In school, we excel in many subjects; however, in some subjects forget about it. There may have been a point in time in our school career when teachers made us feel small in some subjects, so we just stop trying and resigned ourselves that it is true.

However, much later, when school marks don’t matter and we can be ourselves we tend to find ourselves using the same old values we learned from our school days our peers or parents.

You are here, now, reading this. If you have aspirations, hope, expectations you have a GOAL. Whatever it is you are doing right now you can also have whatever it is you are thinking of.

Time to rethink!
Discover you can excel at something you thought you stunk at.

The universe wants us to learn that:

We can have it all.

Why not?

A good starting point is to write down your thoughts and contact a Life Coach. Start to put those plans you thought were just pie in the sky to the test.
Nothing is ever achieved if you don’t try.

You would have pondered over various medical factors for frequent headache attacks to you. But have you considered stress as an underlying cause of headache?

Well, stress is one of the major contributors to various types of headache. And in fact stress originated headache happens to be directly proportional to the level of stress faced by the person. It could be a persistent headache if you constantly remain under stress or it could be an acute headache that ends once you are out of stress. It could even turn out to be a recurring headache if you experience one stress after another, in continuation.

The solution to these types of headache doesn’t lie in taking headache medications. Instead, you should try to find out the actual reason that is compelling you to remain under stress. Once you know about the factors contributing stress to you, you can either modify your lifestyle to curb the stress or you can learn to manage the stress. This is the way in which you would be able to control your headache.

A persistent stress takes the shape of anxiety that weakens you internally and limits the blood supply to nerve cells. It may also be a cause of headache. A workaholic person often remains under stress due to constant pressure of work that may trigger off severe headache. Here, it’s the pressure of work that works as stress. A student could fall prey to headache when examination is impending. Pressure of examination may result in temporary stress causing headache.

A human being undergoes various psychological traumas that compel him/her to live in a state of constant stress that often takes the form of depression. And a depressed folk often claims of headache that becomes a constant companion of the person. Such headaches could only be curbed when the root cause of the problem is addressed properly.

So folks! Before taking headache medication, you must check your headache against prevailing tensions and stresses in your life. Once you are sure that you are free of stress, you can go ahead with pain killers as your headache is a result of certain causes other than stress.