There is a sneaky disease a lot of good folks are walking around with and they do not even realize it. The disease is “Resistance to Receiving”

Here are some signs you may have this disease.

!. You are surrounded by those who do not appreciate you.

2. You are stuck in a dead end job and not appreciated.

3. You keep attracting “Loser Lovers”.

4. You think it is noble to be “poor and suffering”.

5. You think it is your job to save the whole world.

6. You attract clients but none of them can pay you much.

7. Nobody listens to your advice anyway.

In short. if your life is not rapidly towards where you you want to be, you likely have some form of this disease.

More facts…

There are 3 basic kinds of people.

!. People who feel a sense of “entitlement”- like the world owes them something. We all know folks like that, they ask for a ride and never offer to pay for gas. These people generally expect to get everything for free.

2. People who do not know how to receive. They feel uncomfortable when someone offers them a compliment, or to buy them lunch.. ( these people have the disease ,”resistance to receiving”)

3. People who are balanced in the giving and receiving dept. They know that there must be both giving and receiving to bring balance.

The dear ones I want to address are number 2 – “people who can’t receive.”

You know, you could take classes on “manifesting ” till you are blue in the face but until you transform those icky feelings around receiving, it will do no good.

Your mouth could be saying, “Yes, I want to receive but your energy is saying, “No, I don’t feel comfortable receiving” Guess which energy the universe responds to?

Here is my concern… I want you to receive all the great and wonderful things the universe has for you but consider this.

If you are a healer and you have trouble receiving, your vibration is going to be giving off “resistance to receiving” – (Any one who wants to help others is a healer)

How could you expect your clients to ‘receive’ healing through you?

Not only that but you could likely attract plenty of # 1 type people who want everything for nothing.

WHY, because the universe always seeks to balance itself.

You may notice ( if you have trouble receiving) that you already have attracted a whole bunch of those who want your services for nothing. Oh and by the way, folks who want everything for nothing are not ready to heal anyway.

So, do you want to shift gears and move into being balanced about both giving and receiving?

Do you need a little help accepting how valuable and wonderful you are?

Are you ready to shift your energy and attract people who are ready for what you have to offer?

Are you sick of attracting energy vampires without knowing why?

DO NOT take any more manifesting classes until you heal this “resistance to receiving”,.

Why waste any more time and finance when you may have this HUGE block to your flow?

I remember the day, I realized I had this condition. A friend had invited me to lunch and when the check came, she said, “Please, let me get it”. I said, “Oh no, I can’t let you do that”. She just looked at me and said, “Rebecca, it is just as important to receive as it is to give”.

Well, that is all it took for me to start balancing my energy. Her wise words kept ringing in my ears.

Awareness is so important. So, please make a conscious choice to allow others be blessed and learn how to receive joyfully.

Many people want to experience the thrill of running their own online network marketing business but give up when they meet the first hurdle. In order to survive in any business your mindset is just as important as whether you have the best looking graphics on your website!

If you are easily disappointed, if you know that you give up easily, then you really will want to learn how to strengthen your attitude because you are going to need broad shoulders and a “stuff upper lip!” to survive in the world of network marketing.

So here are 6 tips to developing a positive mental attitude that will help you to build your online network marketing business.

1. Be Committed

Once you have your desire to achieve commitment to achieve your goals is essential. When something is new and exciting it is easy to do, but within a few short months (or even weeks) of starting it is easy to abandon what you have started, especially when you are constantly met with people saying “no”.

Affirm your commitment to achieving whatever target you have set yourself, and remember to reward yourself every step of the way. Baby steps, one achievement at a time, build up to become one large achievement and that is the best way to achieve any goal.

Setting yourself a goal to make $300 in your first 3 months and then not acknowledging yourself for making $20 for a sale can cause frustration. Remember it is the small parts that come together to make the whole! 15 sales at $20 means you hit your $300 target.

2. Accept Challenges

Being your own boss and owner of your online network marketing business can be scary and a bit intimidating. You may decide to start building your business while still in full time employment and that in itself will cause challenges.

Or you may just leave your job to focus on your business (never a good idea!) It takes guts to have a dream and to go for it. You ultimately determine whether your business succeeds or fail, and learning to accept challenges is an important part of that.

Not managing your time properly can easily become one of the biggest challenges you will have to deal with. It will be very easy to sit at your computer and feel as if you have done very little 8 hours later if you are not managing your time and the appropriate tasks.

3. Be In Control.

Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you want to do and accomplish. Develop a strategy for dealing with potential problems and when those problems surface, feel confident in your ability to handle them.

The worst you can do in your online network marketing business is fail, and failure is not even that bad if you can learn from it and move on. Focus on failure not being an option and focus on what you will achieve when you succeed. A positive mental attitude is essential to survive online!

“I can do it” are probably the four most important words you can continually say to yourself every day.

4. Don’t be too Critical

There is no use criticizing yourself once you’ve made a mistake. Saying “I should have landed that account or handled that situation differently” is not going to make any difference at all. It’s just going to drain you of your energy and discourage you. Simply learn from your mistakes and move on. Let me repeat that – Simply learn from your mistakes AND MOVE ON!

5. Practice Makes Perfect

And stop worrying about getting everything right. It’s not going to happen. The only thing that separates you from a millionaire is mindset (assuming you are not a millionaire already of course!).
Learn, learn and learn some more. Paying for courses and seminars is an investment in yourself and in your business. If you value yourself then you must have this attitude towards it. You can learn the hard way by doing things and seeing what works or what doesn’t. Or you can go to a seminar, listen to what works, adapt it to add your own flair to it, and make it work even better!

6. Ask for Help

When you run an online network marketing business you want to work for yourself not by yourself. There is nothing wrong with asking for help. Don’t think you’re incompetent simply because you can’t do it all.

Get to know your Sponsor, their input and experience in the business is essential in your early weeks and months. Send them an email, introduce yourself, let them know what support you need and what you are hoping to achieve. Don’t just sit back and wait for them to get in touch with you.

A positive mental attitude in life is essential and in business even more so. When you spend months on a project that makes you no money wanting to continue may seem tough, but as long as you are willing to look at what didn’t work or what you may need to do to bring in a profit then you are a survivor!

I encourage you to read books about people who are successful in the netowkr marketing industry, they are a constant source of inspiration because you will realize that they were once were you are, just starting out.

The driving test is one of the most important things that you have to go through in getting to drive your own car. While there are many people who think that learning how to drive is difficult, there are also so many others who think that the driving test is the hardest thing that they have to go through when it comes to learning driving.

There are quite a number of people who are unable to get their driver’s licenses because they simply froze at the wheel every time they take the driving test. They end up living the rest of their lives, taking the bus or riding a taxi every time they want to go somewhere.

Most of these people, who freeze at the wheel during a driving test, are afraid of making mistakes in front of the driving instructor. In other cases, they are also afraid that something might happen while they are at the wheel, like maybe they will back into a post, a dog or worst, a person.

Most of these people who fail miserably during a driving test are those who are prone to having anxiety attacks. They are quite unable to control their emotions when their overactive imagination comes into play. If you are one of these persons, then you have to learn to take control of your emotions, so you could pass your driving test with flying colors.

You might think that this is easier said than done. But, you can actually do it if you put your mind to it and get rid of all the anxious thoughts that are crowding in your head. To calm yourself down before a driving test, you could think of positive thoughts like how you would want to drive a convertible along the sandy beaches of Florida, with the wind whistling through your hair. You could even think of having a nice sundae treat once you get your driver’s license. Think of any good thing that you want, as long as it get you to pass that driving test.

However, if you really think you couldn’t pass your driving test by just willing yourself to think nice thoughts, then you might want to try hypnotherapy. There are many hypnotherapists now who could guarantee you that after several sessions, you are already able to grab at that steering wheel and get through your driving test without a single feeling of trepidation.

Through the application of hypnosis, these therapists will delve into your subconscious mind and open those barriers that are giving you all those anxious thoughts that have prevented you from passing your driving test. Once these blocks are eliminated, you are already free to think of all those wonderful thoughts that will ease your worries. Soon you will have your driver’s license in your hand.