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How Can I Learn To Meditate?

It’s a bit like riding a bike, once you’ve learned how to meditate then it’s a process you’ll have access to the whole of your life.

But where can you learn to meditate?

There are meditation tutorials on the internet, so they are often a good place to start. So long as they’re not complicated with lots of jargon. Most are good and take the time out to explain any terms they are using so that beginners can understand them.

When you are starting out, it’s important to choose a meditation method that’s easy to pick up.

I’d personally suggest a breathing meditation, a walking meditation or, if you prefer, a “high tech” meditation like Centerpointe where all you need to do is sit down and play a CD.

There are pluses and minuses to each of these methods, but as a general rule they are all easy enough to pick up.

Once you’ve decided on a meditation method, trial it for a week or so to see whether or not you really get on with it. If you do, keep going with it. If you don’t, then try another method instead. As with everything else in life, not everyone gets on with everything. There’s no embarrassment if you find you don’t like a particular method.

A week or two’s trial is a good length of time. Anything less and it’s unlikely you’ve given the method a fair trial. After all, it probably took you more than one lesson to drive a car.

Do your best to meditate at the same time each day. We’re creatures of habit and this includes meditation. Especially when you are learning something new, set aside a specific time of the day when you are most likely to be able to carry out your meditation practice.

How Can An Add-friendly System Change Your Life?

Attention deficit disorder (ADD) wasn’t recognized until about twenty years ago. Before that time, children who didn’t sit still in their desk chairs, who seemingly daydreamed all the time, and couldn’t meet homework assignments were considered “bad” kids, whose parents had failed to give them sufficient discipline. The only option was to spank or punish them on a daily basis. We still don’t know what repercussions that type of parenting had on kids who just couldn’t do any better.

Today, we know the symptoms of ADD and ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder), which include those issues mentioned above, though there are still some doctors and many lay persons who still believe that ADD is caused by bad parenting. Science has proven otherwise. ADD stems from a neurological difference in the brain, and to be diagnosed ADD, its symptoms must have been present for six months or more and be severe enough to have disrupted the person’s life. No scientific test can positively test the condition, though the similarities in those known to have ADD are overwhelming.

It has only recently been determined that ADD is more than a childhood disorder that disappears as the child gets older. Statistics show, however, that 70% of children will outgrow the symptoms by the time they are teens, but as many as 15 to 20% of people with ADD will continue to have ADD throughout their lives. When these symptoms go untreated, they can bring on bigger issues such as drug addiction, work issues, depression, and even marital problems.

Counseling and proper medical treatment, when needed, can help tremendously. But when you have ADD, you need to find ADD-friendly systems to help you just get through the day.

So, what’s an add-friendly system?

Let’s say that you’re a work-at-home mom. You have a husband’s schedule to remember because he works different hours every day. Then, there are the kids with their after-school and summer activities and sports practices. Plus, you’re trying to run your own home-based business. How do you keep everything that you need to know straight?

Force yourself to use some type of planner, every single day.

Microsoft Outlook has a great feature in its calendar. You can use it to plug in all your appointments and to keep your “to-do” list straight. Since you’re working a home-based business, you probably are at the computer for a good part of the day. Leave the calendar open in your task bar and plug in appointments that you need to remember as they arise. Get Outlook to remind you by setting up an alert that will pop up five minutes or more before the appointment is due.

If you don’t have Outlook, try another piece of software called Time & Chaos. But if you’d rather have something with you all the time, buy a personal data assistant, like a Palm Pilot, or get a cell phone with scheduling capabilities. If you prefer to enter appointments by hand, a simple wall board or wall calendar, with big squares so that you can enter information into them, will work, too. It all depends upon your personal preference.

But if you want something really high-tech and user friendly at the same time, try Mark Joyner’s Simpleology at http://simpleology.com. His “Simple Science of Getting What You Want,” also known as Simpleology 101 will organize every bit of time in your day and help you to see what you want in your life and to get it. Simpleology even has a desktop solution that you can download to see your day plainly, every minute you’re in front of the computer.

ADD sometimes makes it very hard to stay organized, so you must commit to building a system, perhaps with one of these options, and to follow it religiously. If you start the day organizing, and free your mind from worrying that you won’t get something done on time, you’ll be more productive.

Using ADD-friendly systems for everything from organization to achieving better interpersonal relationships can free your life. We’ll be talking about these issues in the future, so be sure to stay tuned.

How A Work At Home Business Can Make Your Life Easier

There are various home business options to choose from, each providing certain liberties that may not be possible to get from the office environment. Here are just a few ways in which a home business can make your life easier.

Staying At Home With Kids

This may be the biggest benefit of running your own home business. The expense involved in sending your children to day care can be completely eliminated. Although some work-at-home parents still choose to keep their children in daycare in order to get more work done during the day, the option of eliminating day care is possible.

Transportation

Operating your own home business eliminates the need for you to sit in traffic each day as you commute back and forth to work. You will spend less time in your car and more time doing the things that you enjoy most. The mileage on your car will be reduced and you can save money on gas.

Tax Deductions

If you own your own home business, you are able to take advantage of many tax deductions that those working in an office are not able to take. Although the savings only occur once a year, the amount you save each year may be quite substantial.

No Boss To Have To Answer To

Being your own boss is always an incentive when owning your own home business. You decide the hours that you want to work, when you want to take a vacation, and the manner in which you would like your home business run. You have complete control.

Cost Reductions

Owning your own home based business can be less costly than owning a brick and mortar business. Using your home as your office space instead of buying or leasing a building is a great way to keep more money in your pocket.