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Finding Balance In Life

We all feel a little off balance at times. Maybe we’re having difficulty sleeping or we’re stressed or getting emotionally sensitive and finding there is drama in some or all of our relationships. Often during these times our life is focused area too much in one or more areas. Dividing our attention between different activities and finding routines helps us to restore balance.

Here are some tips that may help you to restore a feeling of balance:

1. Limit your online time (emails, forums, instant messaging) to two hours a day.

2. Leave the house every day in the morning, even if you don’t need to be somewhere. You can go to a coffee shop and read the paper, visit a library or a museum, or go for a long walk or bicycle ride.

3. Keep regular sleeping hours. If you are having difficulty sleeping, at least assign certain hours for sleeping, resting, reading, or quiet television (if that makes you drowsy).

4. Save the last hour of the day for quiet and reading books or television – no phone, no computer, no work.

5. Step away from people who are pulling you off balance with drama or their own negativity. Usually you only need to do this until you feel balanced again.

6. Occupy your thoughts and time mostly with positive ideas and activities.

7. Have an assortment of healthy friends in different niches of life. “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket,” or all your social time into one friend or one group of friends. This way when there are problems, and there almost always are occasionally even in good relationships, you will be able to have some enjoyable time or get emotional support from other friends.

8. If you have been watching a lot of television, limit your television to no more than 3 hours a day, at least for a week.

9. Balance the time in your day between different activities and efforts, even at work or college. Too much of one type of activity can make you feel more stressed or dissatisfied. Pace yourself with deadlines so that you won’t have to do marathon sessions to catch up.

10. Don’t work on personal healing or self improvement too much. It gets too intense and ultimately does not help.

11. LIGHTEN UP! Don’t take things too seriously… practice laughter, and ESPECIALLY laughing at yourself!

Fight Depression – Discover Why A Stress Free And Happy Life Is Not Really That Hard To Achieve.

Each and everyone of us have the tendency to suffer from depression, but we all have different levels of tolerance to handle it. One person’s ability to handle and fight depression may not be the same as yours or mine. Now the question is, why do some people never even have to complain in having to fight depression at all, at the same time, manage to enjoy a happy and stress free life?

Although you and I just like everybody else out there hate depression, we must admit that it is a normal part of being human. However, anything that goes beyond what is normal is definitely not healthy and thus have to be stopped immediately before it causes any permanent damage. While other people immediately resort to doctors’ advice and drug prescriptions, there are certainly better ways you could handle or fight depression in a much wiser and natural method. The tips I am about to share with you below are no magic formulas, just very natural and wise methods, but they are definitely real and proven solutions that some people constantly apply to keep them on guard from emotional challenges such as worry, fear, stress, anxiety, and all other factors alike that would eventually lead to depression if not properly dealt with from the very start.

1) There is no better way to have a much pleasant and calm personality than having a healthy and matured spiritual being. This is no secret. Ever wonder why do religious or spiritual leaders seemed to always be calm, steady and healthy? You do not have to be really religious and all that, but the main point here is that your spiritual maturity will reflect in your physical being. So, do find ways to improve your spiritual life. Join religious groups or be part of some similar communities that will help you grow spiritually.

2) Always keep a positive attitude. Now this is another no secret kind of thing. In fact, there has not been any motivational book or talk that would not mention this very common piece of advice. The only obvious question that people may always associate with this solution is, “how do you keep up with an always positive attitude?”. A very precise answer to this is, “do not entertain negative thoughts and emotions”. Try to practice this attitude as hard as you can on a daily basis, even if you fail most of the time, until you eventually adopt that positive attitude and then it becomes natural to you already.

3) Never lose hope. Losing hope is a grave mistake you could ever put yourself into. When you lose hope over anything at all, it destroys your system and begin to cloud your mind which eventually leads to depression. Now with this one, if you followed tip #1 then I am sure you are no stranger with the word faith. Go learn about this powerful word, cause if you have faith, you will discover that nothing in this world is ever hopeless. Believe that this world was created out of love and so things will always turn out to be good. Plant that in your heart and really do believe it.

Fibromyalgia, CFS, Musculoskeletal Balance And The Alexander Technique: Part 1

What I want to concentrate on is precisely how The Alexander Technique can be used as part of an adjunctive strategy along with other techniques, with the objective of alleviating your Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome symptoms.

In this article I do not want to repeat all the information available on the internet about the history of FM Alexander and how he developed his techniques.

All the techniques I detail have a way of dove-tailing into each other and symbiotically deepening the effects of each other.

Basically, my angle on the Alexander Technique is that I want to take what I need from the techniques and apply them directly to assist with the musculoskeletal problems that are maintaining patients Fibromyalgia and CFS symptoms.

Bottom line: There is a way of moving that your body likes and a way that it doesn’t.

When you have an injury or imbalance there is a way of moving that helps the body heal and a way that prevents it from healing.

All musculoskeletal conditions have varying symptoms and present in different ways, but all have one thing in common, they can all be made better or worse by the way you align your head, neck and trunk as you go through the movements and postures of your every day life.

The muscles which support your skeleton are usually asked to work far too hard for the task or tasks that they are being employed, and over time this can lead to them becoming “stuck” in this state of excess tension aka Trigger points. These may gradually worsen over a period of years.

When you are then attacked by the initial trigger for what you consider to be the “recognized” start of your life with Fibromyalgia/ CFS, then if your muscles were already habitually in this state of excess tension, then post infection, one of your main symptoms will then be this muscular pain.

When you go on to present at your chosen healthcare provider, you will more likely be labeled “Fibromyalgia” as oppose to “CFS” and you will be tested via the trigger point methodology.

Let me make one point clear that is an over-riding theme through all the therapy that I outline: Your body has an innate capacity to heal itself, but as human beings in Western Society we are hell bent on destroying everything that nature has taught us, thereby switching to unnatural modes of action simply because its fashionable or that is the way everyone else does it, or that’s the way things are made and manufactured etc.

Look at toddlers when they first sit up and stand, look at the perfect alignment of the head, neck and torso, and look at the ease and grace with which they move.

All humans are born with this grace and poise and we “choose” to unlearn it as soon as possible by copying moody, slouching, ill postured teenagers and adults.

Take the simple act of sitting in a comfy chair that maybe 200 million Americans are doing right now as you read this. The reality is that that chair is NOT COMFY just because it says so on the manufacturer’s label!

The typical slouching position that people are forced to assume on a daily basis is absolutely against all the natural laws of correct posture and alignment of the spinal column, and results in many millions of people holding their body in a state of excess tension for hour after hour, while they actually believe they are “relaxing”.

In third world countries where natural posture is enforced in daily lives due to the unavailability of “comfy” sofas, “bad backs” are relatively uncommon and unsurprisingly so is Fibromyalgia and CFS as defined by Western Society.

Fibromyalgia and CFS are largely diseases of modern “civilized” society. We have evolved through the industrial age in a few hundred years. But by comparison, it took millions of years of evolution just for our bodies to become bipedal.

Take the “comfy” sofa example again. What are manufacturer’s criteria in designing and building this item? The real design specifications are that it is more fashionable than the competition; it can be made more cheaply than the competition so the mark-up and profit can be higher from each sale.

Do not for one minute believe they are sitting round their brain-storming coffee mornings saying “lets design a sofa so our buyers can relax in a natural position, realign their faulty posture and avoid muscular tension.”

If this was the case the comfy chair would not exist in its current form.

Another example of the misuse of our body forced upon us by tradition and the manufacturers design specification is the W.C.

In terms of passing a motion comfortably this piece of furniture is absolutely inept and causes a requirement for a huge amount of pressure to be applied through the lumbar spine in order to expel a motion.

In a later article I will be diagramming the changes I recommend for sitting posture and using the W.C.

You may not initially be overwhelmed by what I recommend, but your body will.

I am not a qualified Alexander therapist; To gain this qualification takes four years of training and so I recommend that you seek a trained therapist in your area, but not until 6 months after you have begun the core therapy.

What I recommend is that you employ the simple strategies I outline in my next article which will present quick wins in terms of your overall musculoskeletal anomalies.

I have talked about the musculoskeletal anomalies inherent in Fibromyalgia and CFS sufferers and how they are responsible for maintaining your illness.

You may be suffering from recurring musculoskeletal pain but do not know exactly what brings on the attacks. Often it is years of poor postural habits which are causing your musculoskeletal imbalance, and we need to address how to change these habits.

Examine the facts:

– Arthritic symptom severity can be reduced by postural habits, keeping the joints moving.

– Spinal surgery or a disc problem can be helped by learning to use the abdominal and back muscles correctly.

– General Back pain can be helped by correct movement as oppose to just bed rest

– Pinched nerves in the neck or lower back are usually the result of compression due to faulty postural habits.

The first thing we need to learn is to reduce overall spinal compression as this will reduce the flare-ups of musculoskeletal pain which are contributing to your overall experience of Fibromyalgia.

As you are no doubt aware, when you are in more pain, your sleep is affected and therefore so are your fatigue CFS symptoms.

Using your body correctly results in less pain, improved healing, better sleep, less tension and therefore less fatigue. Sound good?

If you doubt the effectiveness of the Alexander Technique look at it from this angle.

Modern medicine and modern science are in no doubt about the following sequence of events.

Stress causes anxiety. The emotion “anxiety” produces an excess of the chemicals cortisol and adrenaline which are a known cause of ulcers, high blood pressure and tension headaches and that’s just in the short term.

Nobody doubts that the conscious mind can be utilized to interfere with these thought processes, and similarly with skeletal muscles, the mind can attain precise conscious control over the way they are used to restore and improve overall health

That is all we are going to focus on by using the Alexander Technique.

Alexander’s approach to musculoskeletal pain:

– Alexander’s approach tries to address the totality of a body;
This means that in solving a specific problem, i.e. to solve a problem that may present in one area of the back, this problem cannot be healed unless the entire back is used in a well integrated way.

– Being aware of, and able to control our supporting musculature;
Alexander understood this and taught how to control gravity and work with it rather than against it. This is essential for people with recurring back pain

– Learning to do less with the body overall;
This is an important feature of Alexander’s work with respect to back problems. This doesn’t mean just being lazier, but rather eliminating unnecessary muscle tension and bad postural habits at the root of back pain

I cannot express the importance of this to Fibromyalgia sufferers; in so many Fibromyalgia patients the tension cycle is what exacerbates their trigger points.

Pain causes more tension which in turn causes more pain and so on. By learning to short circuit the pain cycle they can prevent a flare-up of fibromyalgia without having to resort to muscle relaxants and painkillers, also they don’t waste the little energy they have on unnecessary muscle tension.

In the next article I will focus on Alexander’s concepts of “good use” and then the specifics of how they can be applied in everyday life to help Fibromyalgia and CFS patients reduce their musculoskeletal pains.